Friday, August 30, 2013


Headlines    -                                 August 30, 2013

Headlines is a weekly email from me (and sometimes Mary) that includes a few observations from the week and information regarding school events.  It is sent to every current parent’s email address and posted as a blog on the school’s website.  You may access that link here or from the front page of our website at http://www.scfriends.org - Dan

I know this is the first week of school and there are many new and exciting things happening but as I consider what I should write about I keep coming back to the same topic--- compassion.

This summer, my daughter elected herself to take care of the mice from Tr. Bailey’s middle school science classroom.  They were all females, light eaters, quiet as mice, and living happily in a terrarium.  What could happen?  Well, nature happened and we learned that they were not all females.  The first litter came in early August and the next blessed event occurred just two weeks ago.  Anna is now the proud ‘parent’ of over 30 mice and her parents are looking forward to returning them all to Tr. Bailey soon. 

As the first brood matured, Anna noticed that 4 of the babies were not developing as fast as the others and that the mother had stopped feeding them.  She tried many things to fix this situation (hand feeding, isolating the runts with the mother) but, in the end, the laws of nature held.  Besides the caring she provided for each mouse, I was touched to see her hold a mini-funeral for each one by gently wrapping them up, saying a goodbye and burying them out in the flower garden. 

Our 2/3 classroom also experienced a death over the summer.  It seems Peppi, one of the class guinea pigs, passed away quietly.  Upon their return to school and after some discussion, the class decided to hold a memorial service for the beloved furry guy.  The children who knew Peppi wrote eulogies, the others made a heart shape on the lawn out of small rocks, and the whole class (including students the 4th graders who knew Peppi) stood in silence around the heart and offered their remembrances and thanks. The service ended with a heartfelt song.  The full story, along with pictures, is on our website.

This week I am struck by the compassion of the children of this school.   It is evidenced by the students (and Tr. ReneĆ©) of the 2/3 classroom, the two middle school boys who help a 2nd grader get from the bus to her classroom each morning, and the first graders in Lisa’s class who help the new kindergarten students get used to school.  Compassion comes from taking the time to understand and celebrate the gifts that a person or animal has provided.  It is a quality that is undervalued and much needed in our world.  It was refreshing to see our newest teacher jump in so quickly to ensure that the children had their time to say goodbye and to foster their developing sense of compassion.   Each time I watch Anna bury a mouse in the yard, I am thankful for all of her teachers who have worked to nurture the compassion in her.

 

Announcements

Back to School Night – Our annual Back to School Night is scheduled for Thursday, September 5th from 5:30 – 6:30 p.m. Please plan to join us, as it will be an excellent time for you to find out about Friends School and become familiar with your child’s classroom and teachers.  This event is for adults. If you’re unable to make child care arrangements, let us know. We can provide supervision for a limited number of children, but you do need to notify us if you’ll need this. 

Potluck Suppers – Two potlucks are scheduled this fall.  A potluck for the K/1 classes will be held on Friday, September 6th from 5:30 to 7 pm.  (Please note the date change!) This supper is a way for our new parents to meet and begin forming a parent classroom community.  An all-school potluck is scheduled for Friday, September 27th from 5:30 to 7:30 pm.  Potlucks are a wonderful way for our community to come together in a relaxed and informal manner.  Both events will be held in the Community Room.  In the way of Friends School, we ask you to consider pitching in for set up and/or clean up for this event.  Please let our director of development know if you are able to assist for 20 minutes or so before or after: lorip@scfriends.org We hope you will join us to make new friends and enjoy some wonderful food.

If you’re a first grade family and can lend some hospitality help for the K/1 potluck, please let Lori know. (lorip@scfriends.org) We’d love some help with set-up, clean-up, and welcoming our new kindergarten families.

Substitute Teachers Needed -  Each year, we put out a call to our parent community to ask if any of you might be interested in being on our substitute teacher list. You don’t have to be a certified teacher to sub, and we often find that school parents can fill the role perfectly. We use substitutes when classroom teachers or assistant teachers are absent, and also coverage of special classes such as art, music, Spanish, PE, and yoga. This isn’t parent volunteer work, and our substitutes receive financial compensation for their time.

If you’d like to be on the list, or if you’d just like to discuss the possibility, please be in touch with Mary at mziegler@scfriends.org Let her know if you have preferred grade levels or subject areas, and what your available days would be. Also let her know about anyone else you think would make a great sub.

Please enjoy the Labor Day weekend.

Dan